The Sex Was the Easy Part. The Real Work Was Emotional.

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The Sex Was the Easy Part. The Real Work Was Emotional. When Paloma Karr took a job at Sheri’s Ranch, a legal brothel in Nevada, she thought of men as paychecks. Back home in New York City, Karr had just gone through an intense breakup and was stuck with a rent payment she couldn’t afford. She explored “sugar baby” work and, almost on a whim, started applying to brothels in Nevada. Just a few weeks later, Karr was flying to Las Vegas, ready to make the money she needed and return home. But while she was there, Karr had a series of conversations that changed everything. She found herself endeared to her clients, many of whom just seemed to want someone to talk to about their insecurities. When they were honest with her, she was surprised to find herself being honest with them, too. This week on the “Modern Love” podcast, Karr talks about how working in a brothel completely changed her ideas about men, sex and herself. Please note: this episode contains explicit language about sex. Each Week on “Modern Love,” the host, Anna Martin, explores the complicated love lives of real people. The podcast is inspired by the weekly New York Times column. Listen to and Follow ‘Modern Love’ Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | YouTube |iHeartRadio Unlock full access to New York Times podcasts and explore everything from politics to pop culture. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Want more from Modern Love? Visit or wherever you get your podcasts. Follow NYTimes: Subscribe to NYT Audio:
  2026/11/04      youtube
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